• A Sad Encounter

    From Mike Dippel@VERT/CAPCITY2 to All on Fri Jul 18 22:59:24 2025
    Back in April, 1979 I was a Detroit Police Officer working a 2 man car in the area of Belle
    Isle, an island actually north of Canada. After finishing our lunch on the island, we
    started to leave the island and saw a vehicle with the door open and the engine running.
    The owner of the vehicle had stepped out and stepped over the railing and looking down
    at the rushing water below.

    I spoke calmly to him in an attempt to get him to climb back over the railing, but I was
    unsuccessful. He jumped to his death. This has always been hard for me to talk about
    and is something that has stuck with me for all these years. Inside his vehicle was a
    wallet containing 2 uncashed paychecks from Pontiac Motors, and pictures of his wife
    and a one-year old child. For all these years, I wondered what would make a man with
    money, a wife and child want to commit suicide.

    3 weeks ago, I received a phone call on my cell phone. I have a Google Pixel phone that
    allows me to screen calls and read the live transcription of what the caller is saying.
    This allows me to decide whether or not to answer the call.

    It was obvious by the text that the caller was nervous and tense. In short, the caller
    wanted to know if I was the same Detroit Police Officer that worked the area of the
    bridge in 1979. At that point, I realized that I had to answer the phone.

    The caller was that one-year old that I saw a picture of in the wallet of the jumper. She
    was very emotional when she first spoke. She was crying, and I admit that I was as
    well.

    She said that she had been searching for me for years to thank me for what I did for her
    father: to try and talk him off the ledge, albeit unsuccessfully.

    It was very cathartic for both of us to speak about this tragedy. After we hung up, we
    texted each other to say the words we wanted to say but were unable to because of the
    emotions when speaking.

    I bring this up here because I wanted to talk about suicide and the mental problems
    leading to suicide. The caller had years to process this and came to one conclusion: she
    is satisfied with him taking his life because it is probably better than the alternative
    where he survived and would possibly go in and out of mental institutions.

    Her mother did a great job raising her. The mother explained that her father had some
    mental issues after serving in the Army being deployed to Viet Nam. There is of course
    a lot more that we discussed, but too much to mention here.

    That phone call was definitely the most powerful phone call that I ever received. My
    wife and I Zoomed with her 3 days ago. She wanted me to record the meeting so she
    could get a copy of the video. That too is the most powerful Zoom call that I was
    involved in.

    We will probably be meeting up with her sometime on the future since she lives just 1-
    1/2 hours away from us. More to follow?

    Mike Dippel
    DPD 1977-1979, when I was put on indefinite layoff status along with 1,000 other
    officers.

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  • From Gamgee@VERT/PALANTIR to Mike Dippel on Sat Jul 19 09:19:15 2025
    Mike Dippel wrote to All <=-

    Back in April, 1979 I was a Detroit Police Officer working a 2 man car
    in the area of Belle Isle, an island actually north of Canada. After finishing our lunch on the island, we started to leave the island and
    saw a vehicle with the door open and the engine running. The owner of
    the vehicle had stepped out and stepped over the railing and looking
    down at the rushing water below.

    <SNIP>

    Wow, Mike. Incredible story, and I can imagine the difficulty and
    emotion of talking about it. Super cool that the child (now grown)
    reached out to you that way. Perhaps you will grow into being friends. Thanks for sharing.



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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Mike Dippel on Sat Jul 19 12:13:27 2025
    Back in April, 1979 I was a Detroit Police Officer working a 2 man car in the area of Belle
    Isle, an island actually north of Canada. After finishing our lunch on the island, we
    started to leave the island and saw a vehicle with the door open and the engine running.
    The owner of the vehicle had stepped out and stepped over the railing and looking down
    at the rushing water below.
    ...

    Thanks for sharing this story, and thanks for your service as a police officer. It's awesome that his daughter reached out to you after all these years.

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  • From Mike Dippel@VERT/CAPCITY2 to Nightfox on Sun Jul 20 09:10:32 2025
    On 7/19/2025 12:20 PM, Nightfox wrote to Mike Dippel:

    Back in April, 1979 I was a Detroit Police Officer working a 2 man car in the
    area of Belle
    Isle, an island actually north of Canada. After finishing our lunch on the
    island, we
    started to leave the island and saw a vehicle with the door open and the engine running.
    The owner of the vehicle had stepped out and stepped over the railing and looking down
    at the rushing water below.
    ...

    Thanks for sharing this story, and thanks for your service as a police officer.
    It's awesome that his daughter reached out to you after all these years.

    Follow up: My wife and I did a Zoom with her last week. She explained in detail how
    she located me using ChatGPT in a step by step process. I didn't realize until then how
    powerful ChatGPT is. Maybe a little scary, but the end result was amazing.

    I didn't share with her that I actually DID save 2 lives in my 21 years wit the Fort
    Lauderdale PD. For me, that helped me recover from the one that I COULDN'T help.

    Mike Dippel

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  • From Mike Dippel@VERT/CAPCITY2 to Gamgee on Sun Jul 20 09:16:34 2025
    On 7/19/2025 9:24 AM, Gamgee wrote to Mike Dippel:

    Mike Dippel wrote to All <=-

    Back in April, 1979 I was a Detroit Police Officer working a 2 man car in the area of Belle Isle, an island actually north of Canada. After finishing our lunch on the island, we started to leave the island and saw a vehicle with the door open and the engine running. The owner of the vehicle had stepped out and stepped over the railing and looking down at the rushing water below.

    <SNIP>

    Wow, Mike. Incredible story, and I can imagine the difficulty and
    emotion of talking about it. Super cool that the child (now grown)
    reached out to you that way. Perhaps you will grow into being friends. Thanks for sharing.

    It has always been emotional for me to talk about, but nowhere near as emotional as it
    was when she called. There is a good chance that we will get together in the future. We
    did a Zoom call last week, and at the end of the call, my wife "welcomed her to our
    family".

    For Father's Day, my daughter's gift to me was a one-year subscription to a site called
    Storyworth.com She wants me to write my memoirs and after the period of one year
    she will get a hard copy of the book ad so will I. I called my daughter the night that this
    happened and she suggested that I include this in the book. I have already written this
    powerful chapter.

    Mike Dippel

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  • From Gamgee@VERT/PALANTIR to Mike Dippel on Sun Jul 20 18:23:28 2025
    Mike Dippel wrote to Gamgee <=-

    For Father's Day, my daughter's gift to me was a one-year subscription
    to a site called Storyworth.com She wants me to write my memoirs and after the period of one year she will get a hard copy of the book ad so will I. I called my daughter the night that this happened and she suggested that I include this in the book. I have already written this powerful chapter.

    What a thoughtful (and great) idea! I'm gonna check that out myself,
    thanks for mentioning it.




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  • From Dumas Walker@VERT/CAPCITY2 to MIKE DIPPEL on Mon Jul 21 10:14:23 2025
    For Father's Day, my daughter's gift to me was a one-year subscription to a site called
    Storyworth.com She wants me to write my memoirs and after the period of one year
    she will get a hard copy of the book ad so will I. I called my daughter the night that this
    happened and she suggested that I include this in the book. I have already written this
    powerful chapter.

    My sister gave my father one of those a year or two ago. He finished it
    this year. The end product is very nice! He was worried initially about
    not having enough to write about but, in the end, he and my sister actually
    had to edit some out in order to stay under the page limit!

    Don't be surprised if the same happens to you. ;)

    Mike

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  • From Mike Dippel@VERT/CAPCITY2 to Dumas Walker on Mon Jul 21 19:37:04 2025
    On 7/21/2025 10:19 AM, Dumas Walker wrote to Mike Dippel:

    For Father's Day, my daughter's gift to me was a one-year subscription to a
    site called
    Storyworth.com She wants me to write my memoirs and after the period of one
    year
    she will get a hard copy of the book ad so will I. I called my daughter the
    night that this
    happened and she suggested that I include this in the book. I have already
    written this
    powerful chapter.

    My sister gave my father one of those a year or two ago. He finished it this year. The end product is very nice! He was worried initially about not having enough to write about but, in the end, he and my sister actually had to edit some out in order to stay under the page limit!

    Don't be surprised if the same happens to you. ;)

    Mike

    I am sure that it can happen. My daughter has a lot of questions about my childhood.
    If I wasn't so old, I would be able to remember them. :(

    Mike Dippel

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